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Parents need to wake up and smell the marijuana
Dick Farrell | The Times-Reporter | 09/03/06

Over the last few months, The Times-Reporter has attempted to shine a spotlight on the growing problem of heroin abuse in Tuscarawas County. Though in actuality the number of young adults and teenagers addicted to heroin is relatively small, the problem is magnified not only by the addicts’ ancillary criminal activities but also because of the negative overall impact those crimes have on family and friends, the justice system and social services.

As we start another school year and at the risk of sounding like an old tired preacher, we have a bit of advice for parents.

Wake up and smell the marijuana.

Actually, that advice comes from the National Center of Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University, which recently released its annual survey of teens and parents on such issues as the teen party scene, which as we all know from reading the newspaper is flourishing in our own communities.

The center surveyed 1,297 teens, age 12 to 17 (591 boys, 706 girls) and 562 parents of teens, 84 percent of whom (470) were parents of teens who completed the survey.

Last week, the Chicago Tribune, citing the survey, editorialized that parents are, in a nutshell, clueless.

“Twelve percent of parents see illegal substances as their teenagers’ greatest concern,” said the editorial. “Yet 27 percent of teens say drugs are a major worry. How is it that teenagers are more concerned about drug use than their parents?

“Maybe because parents are choosing the bliss of ignorance.”

So, how about those teen parties – you know, the rite-of-passage parties that are held at the home of a student while the parents are away on vacation, or maybe at the movies. Those are the kind of parties where bad things happen. Some of those parties and the teens who attend them make the front page.

Here’s what the center concluded:

– When parents are not present, alcohol and drugs are more likely to be available.

– Virtually all parents say they normally are present at their teens’ parties; one-third of teens say they’re not.

– Virtually all parents say they would not serve alcohol at parties; nearly one-third of teens say they have been to parties with teen drinking and parents present.

Joseph A. Califano Jr., chairman and president of the center, said the message this year is “laser sharp.”

“Teen drug and alcohol use is a parent problem, not just a teen problem,” he wrote. “Too many parents fail to fulfill their responsibility to chaperone their teens’ parties, have no idea how drug and alcohol infested their teens’ world is and are utterly unrealistic about their own conduct with respect to their children.

“The lack of involvement, denial and self-delusion of these parental palookas put their teens at enormous risk of drinking and using illegal and prescription drugs.

“Teen parties are a common part of teen life, and these parties are awash with alcohol and drugs.”

Califano also sounds a special warning for parents of young teens.

“The transition from age 13 to age 14, often when a shift from middle to high school occurs, is a time of dramatically escalating substance abuse risk,” he wrote.

High school freshmen are much likelier to be offered prescription drugs, Ecstasy, marijuana and cocaine. They are also likelier to attend parties with teens drinking with parents present; likelier to attend parties where teens are smoking pot with parents present; and likelier to attend parties where teens are using other drugs with parents present.

“The message is loud and clear, parents,” adds Califano. “Wake up and smell the beer and pot! If your teen is having a party at your home, you should not only be there, but also be aware of what is going on.

“And if your teen attends a party at someone else’s home, you should confirm that the parents will be present and that alcohol and drugs will not. The reality is that even when parents are present at a party, some kids will try to sneak in substances.”

It seemed to me when my children were teenagers that some parents wanted to be their kids’ friends. I generally concluded after watching that dynamic that it doesn’t work.

Dick Farrell is editor of The Times-Reporter. You can e-mail him at editor@timesreporter.com

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dedbr

reading this that wasn't a teenager? raise your hands, please.

OK, you two can go home, the rest of you, please participate in this survey.....are there stupid people in Ohio? The closer you get to the Lakes, the more there are, believe me. I used to live up there, and they don't have any sense. Should be a law that they have to move to Mexico in the winter. Straighten them right out.

Some Where In Ded Land......I like fresh ideas....

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buzzmobile

Unfortunately, most of them misread the law and they spend the winter in Florida instead.

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Now it really smells funny in here, and my fingertips are sticky.

1tokeovertheline

You aren't tricking me into answering that one...........1toke walks away with his hand down.

vladimir

i don't know who they surveyed for this, but i know that my parents always knew that i was just going to places where the parents were gone...even before i told them. i only knew of few people in high school who partied and whose parents were unaware of it (or at least the extent of it).

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xxdr_zombiexx

is a biggie in the reefer madness world.

He has made a federally-funded (and privatedly funded, as well) career out of fear-mongering, and deciet, which are the hallmarks of anti-maijuana propaganda....from the word go back in the 1930's.He's a lying scumbag who's made a fortune sucking up federal grant monies publishing bullshit just like this.

Scaring parents, browbeating them, trying to lay the Guilt Trip of Ages on them.

Many parents - I am afraid I can't safely say "most" as much as I'd like to - worry everyday about the health and well-being of their children. Many of this subset of parents smoked pot or still do and this sort of propaganda is intended to introduce doubts and fears into their minds, a vile trick to get them to focus more on their children than they do already.

He gets the money and he gets the media access - where is the media access WE need to mount even a half-way impactful campaign of dissent.

Here's Califano in action in 1998He's a real prince of a guy. He is able to blame marijuana for alcohol poisoning on national TV, the single most influential media in America..

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There's no money for your issue so long as we're squandering $50 billion a year on the DrugWar. Ben Masel

Fear became the ultimate tool of this government - V.

reggie_the_dog

he starts this article talking about heroin overdoses, then starts babeling about cannabis and alcohol. Where in the hell is the link to heroin? Shouldn't parents be looking for dialated pupils, needle marks on arms, or teens that nod out repeatedly?


PS. Nice to see you back over here Doc.