Robdidit

When I am stoned, I think. When I think, I am right.

People always ask what the meaning of life is. Have you ever looked at life? Have you ever wondered why things happen the way they do? Why am I writing this right now? At some point, I decided that it was the best decision in the present for me to take. As my life progressed in experiences, so did my understanding of my surroundings. People do things in a certain traceable way. If you think of anything that happens in your life in your past, why are you sitting where you are right now. Now think recently to what you did that may have caused your actions. I have a lot of homework to do, being that it is a sunday night, so I took prescribed adderall and now I am up at 5 in the morning. If I hadn't taken adderall I wouldn't be up and I would have never wrote this. I chose at some point that it was the best decision in my present, to take it. Think back at the choices you've made and wonder what could have set you up to the situation you are today. What has changed? A grade in a class, a relationship with a friend? even things like beating a video game. What is causing all this to happen?

The answer is love. Love as if it were an energy, or a constant. You put love in to everything you do. It's your life force, if you will. What decides whether or not you are generally happy or sad. Its the amount of effort you put into something and the amount of effort that you receive. I would say that people generally reflect the amount of love that is put in them and they put that effort back into anything they are doing. People recycle love.

That leaves the question of love? What is love? What is this energy? How is it being transferred? What is the only thing humans do, and the thing they do best, everyday communication. How else would you show someone you love them? How else would anybody show you love? Communication isn't just talking though, you communicate through your expressions and actions. Why is it that some people enjoy being around certain people and not others? The answer is because of the kind of love that is given and the amount of it that is being received. I like this person because I enjoys their jokes because they remind me of something else I thought was funny. I don't like this person because their always pissed off and I hate being around pissed off people. Someone enjoys them, they have someone who is in a better position to enjoy that person. People have different levels of security with different people. Communication is the only way to build that security. You get the security with the love they give you and the love they have given you in the past.

You gain security with someone as you recycle love. As you recycle good communication in ways that make people want to put in the effort. There is nothing wrong in accepting a favor from a friend. If they want to do something for you and they offer it to you, they are trying to give love, they are trying to help you out because they are trying to put more effort, more energy, more love into you. A favor represents a big portion of love, putting love into your talk by connecting with them through a way they enjoy is giving them your love. Compliment people. If they seem really interested in something listen to them. Let them do anything they want and still accept them. If they have the security of saying something weird to you, or something personal, they can trust they they are not making a mistake by doing it. People learn how to act, if they are told when every there acting wrong. If they say something weird and you laugh at them, they won't say it in the future, they won't give you that security.

The answer to life is giving love. Because that's all we can do. What purpose does life have if you don't have people? People are the most important thing, because people are a constant. Why not let them do what ever they want to do. As long as you don't let people affect you in ways you don't want them to. They are very easy to understand. Positive reinforcement the only way to give love through communication. If they put effort in to something and they are proud of it, why not tell them that it's cool. Even if you don't think so, people like hearing compliments and it doesn't hurt you to give them. They only thing you should change is how much love is given based on how much love it gives you. If your friend is a painter and you really like her art, the love she receives from you telling her you like it, just goes back in to her life. The more you listen to people and ask them questions, the more love is recycled through.

I would argue that there is no such thing as Evil, but rather Evil is the absence of love. People turn out they way they do based on the amount of support or love that they have gotten from the past. If someone starts to paint and realize they enjoy doing it, they get love to it and the put love into it, If they never had invested that amount of effort or love into starting to painting, without knowing if they were good at it, they would never have had that type of love. You get love from everything you do and you can only decide how much love or effort you can put into everyday life and find out if it gives you that much back. Balance is the answer to a health life and you can only have balance through the input output of love through you.

On a final note, I would say understand what you can and cannot change and improve on what ever you can, by finding a balance of love and a balance of good communication.

Richi

I enjoyed this piece of writing. A very interesting blend of Aristotle's Tabula rasa theory, elements of The Celestine Prophecy, (which I think you'd enjoy), and even the well known Christian Serenity Prayer right there at the end, among other insights of yours.

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laCster

wow man, everything seems so much clearer!

LiveForMusic1827

Very true dude life is pointless without trying new things and breaking out of your shell every once in awhile. Haha I think about life to like the nth level when im high, I love it. But someone whos not high most likely wouldnt understand but I understand you completely dude.

Zocalo

I only read the 1st two paragraphs cuz I'm blazed out of my brain, but um..it was rly good yo, like...i think ill come back at it after a while. It was like, really easy to follow too.

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