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Those who are not them selves are being themselves by following their habit of not being themselves. Humans are creatures of habit. People are afraid to act how they really think. That fear causes them to act differently around people. By acting differently they are acting on that fear which is a part of them. People always follow their nature. Even if that nature is dictated by underlying emotions such as fear and need for acceptance.

Admittedly an abstract concept but food for thought anyway.

GeTbLaZed

Wow that shit felt deep when im stoned and reading it. It was Great. Good job.

P.S. Keep toking.

kronik

Hell im 14 and i can still totally relate to this... im a guy, and im ALWAYS myself with girls.
I dont like fake people. At all. Just a message for guys trying to get girls, just be yourself, if your not, the rrelationship could end because of it. Very nice post.

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There's an unceasing wind that blows through this night
And there's dust in my eyes, that blinds my sight
And silence that speaks so much louder than words,
Of promises broken- Sorrow, Pink Floyd

Nail I3unny

I think you're over-generalizing a bit much here. Yeah...there are those guys who are all about getting with the hottest girl at the party, but they're fairly few and far in between. Most guys are just looking to have a great time, just as most girls. Sometimes, that "great time" just happens to end in having crazy, intoxicated sex with someone you don't know. It's not always about that in the end though...it's just a side trip on the journey. Also, remember, there are girls on the other side of this equation too. I know plenty of girls who sometimes just want to get with a guy for the night.

What you're saying sounds a lot like high school. If it is, don't worry dude. I was one of those guys in highschool that always respected the girls as equal (or superior, rather) to myself. Whether I liked people or not, I was always nice and friendly (with a few small exceptions, of course) and never hesitated to make conversation with anyone. I was always a nice guy in school. And trust me, those are the guys that get the more serious relationships they want in college. If you're out of high school then...well sorry dude. Hang out with some cooler people.

PS. I love the quote in your sig. It's a Seuss quote I used with this girl.

Dark

I think you need to think of your ideas in the sense of not just men, but humans in general. ALL humans are not themselves and don't let their true feelings come out in most situations. That is just the way the human is. Why does a girl want to be sexy in the first place if not to be attractive to the opposite(or same) sex?

A lot of guys like girls for their hair or their ass. A lot of girls like guys for their hair of their muscles. Or their car of if they're in a band...so on.

Most humans, not just men, are first attracted to the ideas of who a person is and not really the person themselves. Showing your true emotion right off the bat usually scares people to be perfectly honest. Next time you meet someone you like, try to be open about it from the very beginning. If they aren't feeling the same way 100%, good luck trying to look sane or not scaring them off.

It's a sense of the ego. A wall put up to protect us. If you're willing to break through that barrier and put your emotions on the line it's a very powerful thing, but the truth of the matter is most people don't, especially around strangers.

Trust me, women do the same it's just from a different perspective. We're ALL confused.

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Dear Ndugu,

Lost in thought

Quite true. Most people CAN'T, not just DON'T. It is very powerful because it is very difficult.



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GeTbLaZed

Damn this is good guys. I see what you guys are saying. And im 14 too. But i was just high at the time so i dont know what i was talking about just random thoughts.

Maximus

Emotions are a human thing, keep in mind. I guess maybe dolphins and some species of monkeys may have primitive forms of emotions, but not nearly as complex as us humans. Sexuality on the other hand is something all species possess, to attract and to be attracted is necessary for our survival. In our animal brain we see a nice looking girl with nice breasts and wide birth giving hips and our animal brains would be happy with that, because it's necessary for breast feeding and giving birth. Our natural role as men is to find these adaptable women, impress them and if they are willing reproduce with them, increasing our species chance of survival. In our current world, however, the concept of the survival of our species has pretty much been excluded when one is trying to find a mate.

Unfortunately society tends to dictate how some people think, it's no longer about reproduction, it's about pleasure, reputation, social stature among many other things. Some guy that sees an attractive girl and could very well be a great provider does not mean he is going to get her. Not if he has a slight skin problem, imperfect teeth, name brand clothes, the survival and reproduction factor is slowly fading. Now women also require an emotional side as well, so us men have to keep up on everything if we want the "hottest" women for our reputation/social stature.

Bottom line is don't take it personally if you don't "fit in" especially in high school. It's the worlds worst social experiment, and it falls in there close with prison. The good thing is 4 years from now you're done, and then you will realize the social aspect of high school was only an illusion, as you will fit in somewhere. Always remember it could always be worse.

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GeTbLaZed

Damn. This stuff is good. And highschool im not too worried im only going into Freshmen Year. So this stuff is deep. Thanks for adding to it and critizing and stuff.