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Jake

I was a virgin until I was 16. I had sex for about a year and then haven't since. Sex just isn't that big of a deal. I feel like I'm still a virgin sometimes, because I'm fast approaching two years w/o.

Almost turning 19 isn't too old. Don't get concerned until you're in your 20s. And if that happens, you can always use a religion excuse.

But most girls will appreciate a virgin, or someone who doesn't just want to fuck them. You'll be surprised how attractive you are to many girls just because you're not "that guy." You have more good things going for you than bad.

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S&MPenguin

That wouldn't be my first suggestion because...

Staring down at a face contorted in pain while trying to perform a pleasurefull act is an extreme mind fuck.

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So if you got a healthy looking garden in your backyard I pull over to admire then I check for a dog and if the area is clear then I'll be back here tonight, set dinner for one under the moonlight.

Noobtastic

To the OP, I feel like we're the same person. I'm a very sexual person yet I'm someone who likes a nice and mature girl who I can sit at home with and I can cook for or can just lay in my arms while we talk and watch a movie together, I don't settle so therefore I'm still a virgin. I'm not ashamed of it but it doesn't help that I was in the past and have lied about it so I have to uphold the lie with few people to keep the trust many have in me. Women will come and go but I've realized that besides the need for sexual release I feel, I'll feel like I've wasted something if I go for the next hot girl who spreads her legs for me and if the parallel between us is true I believe you'd feel the same way. Just get out there, meet women and go on dates but keep sex at the back of your mind because putting it first hardly ends up well.

soldierx40k

Hey man, I wouldn't sweat it... but my situation might be an example of what not to do, given the choice (I know 'choice' isn't the right word, but it's the first that came to my mind).

I'm 17 (end of junior year of HS) and I've had 1 girlfriend. She dumped me for one of my best friends after a bit more than a year of dating... we didn't do a whole lot (3rd a couple times).

Your situation sounds completely normal to me... you shouldn't feel pressured. If there's pressure, everything is worse. Just relax and let nature take its course... (if that sounds odd let me know)

RookieSmoker

I'm in the same boat as you but I'm turning 20 in September. You shouldn't worry about it. I as well have had chances, but never acted on em because to me, sex isn't all that important. I mean, I feel like I may be missing out a little, but the general consensus between me and my friends is that sex isn't everything, and I'm a firm believer in that. I know I've had happier moments not having sex then I ever could while having sex.

 

Chinopants

I would try creigeslist and get your self some BBW loving cheap or theres always rape heard great things about it.

carlover_36

I was 20 before I had intercourse the first time, and aint had sex in about 4 yrs now. Am I wierd? Nope. Just really don't see the whole hoopla about getting laid. Between my first time, Feb. 5, 1983, and 2004 I have had sex everyway, place, etc. that you could ask. Been single about a year and a half now, and aint yet met a girl that sparks my attention. Of course, I don't realy go looking much. Plus after a lifetime of not having "My Space", I kinda like it.

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blondie0420

Suggesting rape is just completely inappropriate and insulting to this thread (not to mention the entire mj.com community). You may have been trying to be funny, but you were not at all.

Comments like yours only make it more difficult for people to come here and feel comfortable asking questions they may feel a little embarassed or awkward about. Wouldn't you rather the discussion of the very sensitive issue of loosing one's viriginity be kept the least bit tactful and mature so that people feel free to discuss whatever issues they may have without fear of being mocked by having you suggest they just rape someone?

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SpiralArchitect

Some great posts here (and a few terrible ones), I would individually address each one but I'm feeling kind of ill... I'll come back to it if the threads still around

Here is my

Wait.

Take it from me man, you don't want to rush into sex. Long story short : The first girl I had sex with I got pregnant. I've come to realize like all things, stuff happens -- just like sex. Don't put the 'pussy on the pedestal', relax, enjoy being single. When the time comes, you'll meet a girl and if you treat her well, it will bud into a wonderful relationship where the fruits of your commitment will include much more than sex. How about a best friend, someone you can laugh, cry, talk bottomless-pit-deep with and still take her out on a date for the sake of her being her.

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JohnBoySmoker

Here's my . It's not the quantity of sex you have but rather the quality of sex. If it happens it happens. You're a young man, there isn't any rush. Its not like they stopped making pussy a couple of weeks ago. Find a girl you CARE about and CARES about you and it will just work itself out.