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Snipe¤Star

i think you took what i said the wrong way. I didnt mean to intentionally pretend to listen to anything she said- i meant something more along the lines of try to agree with her interests and viewpoints when you can. Disagreeing with a woman and having conflicting interetests is the quickest way to 'close the door' so to speak. i wasnt even advocating this as the 'correct' course of action to take with a woman he holds interest in- i was simply addressing a quick, easy, working solution to his problem of wanting to lose his virginity.

You dont have to like it, but what i said is pretty dead accurate. Its the way the world actually works, whether you agree or not. I'm 22- ive been dating since i was 12- im pretty sure i know how the game works by now...

oh and thanks for groaning at me for something that a female immediately agreed with me on. And I'm pretty sure she doesnt appreciate the insinuation that she is must be a cheap slut with loose morals nor do i appreciate the assumption that im only into such girls.

by the way a girl choosing to have sex with someone she finds attractive and interesting does not make her a cheap whore just because she hasnt known him for very long. maybe its your own view of women that needs an adjustment.

if youre really that worried about it, do what this guy said. works every time, and sometimes you get a bonus (herpes)

feedyourhead

i would like to point out, since you haven't figured it out yet -- i'm FEMALE.

only if you're having a conversation with a woman who can't hold an intelligent conversation. i can see right through guys who agree with everything i'm saying just to get me into bed. having different views on things doesn't mean that a woman won't be interested.

and i'm a 21 year old female. if you think that most women fall into this nice little box where they're all flattered by having a man simply agree with them, then you DON'T know how women work. sure it might be an easy way to get a drunk girl to go home with you, but probably not any girl who has a brain in her head.

i'm ALSO a female. just because another girl agreed with you doesn't mean i have to. we don't all have the same opinions and personalities, you know


sorry, but men who simply agree with everything i say just so they can sleep with me is NOT interesting to me and that is NOT an attractive quality. i've been approached by men in the same situation, where they were agreeing with everything i said and it was pretty damn obvious that every word out of my mouth was going in one ear and out the other. after that became apparent, my thoughts on that guy when from cute and funny to douchebag who didn't give a shit about what i was saying. it was insulting to say the least.

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this doesnt reflect on my own personal choices. i was just giving him a shove in the direction that i know works. i think very highly of most of the women i have had any sort of contact or relationship with. again, im not trying to condone this as a healthy approach for his future relationships- to put it blunty, so we all understand- im just trying to help him have sex so he can get over it already.

if he had been asking advice for something more meaningful, i can assure you i would had quite a different response for him. dont take everything so negatively... you guys are the most negative potheads ive ever met...

feedyourhead

all i was trying to say was that as a female, i can pick up on when a guy has absolutely no interest in what i'm saying, and that it's insulting when i'm trying to have a conversation with a guy and the entire time he's just trying to agree with me to make me feel like he likes me so that i'll go home with him. you're right -- it's an easy way to pick up a drunk chick at a bar, but my point is that she'd have to be either a.) dumb and drunk or b.) have low self-esteem (drunk or not).
even if i'm wasted, i can tell when a guy is just talking to me to get me into bed. it's more obvious than you obviously know.

just because i have a different opinion doesn't mean i'm being negative, my drug use doesn't carry any weight when it comes to what i believe in, how i want others to view me, and how i expect others to treat me.

not to mention, from the OP:

the only kind of girl you're going to pick up by pretending to listen and be interested in her, is a girl just like the one described here by the original poster. OBVIOUSLY that's not the kind of girl he's into...

 

Snipe¤Star

i figured if he was desperate (in lack of finding a better word) enough to seek advice/help on an internet message board, that his standards wouldnt be incredibly demadning... sorry for the misinterpretation...

the_silent_smoker

Sex shouldn't be a "life goal." It's another one of life's enjoyable activities. Cultivate good relationships and then worry about having sex.

Personally, I'm a virgin (with girls). Although I do have looks/money (model/actor) and nearly always blaze with my friends, my personality is dull and about as interesting as watching paint dry. Thus I tend to be the cute guy who has good smoke and never talks (hence the name). Plus, because of my looks/the way I carry myself and my occupation, people tend to think that I'm same-sex oriented. I figure my lack of a social life is beneficial; when I'm in my mid-twenties, attractive, and have more money than God, I can deal with getting laid.

One-night-stands are awful. I used to be a huge club kid, so I know how easy some girls can be. You'll stop wanting that kind of contact the first time you take a visit to the health clinic for some antibiotics.

Snipe¤Star

i couldnt agree more.

Darkflan

Sex can always wait. Cause when its with the right person. Is just so much better.

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chadwick

true but you better make sure it truly is the right person, im still scared about what happened to m best friends older brother, he lost his virginity to some chick probably 4-5 years ago, they were in love, he figured out that she was truly a bitch, they broke up and got back together many times, she got pregnant, she lost the baby, he RAN, they hooked back up, she said she was on birth control, so he used a condom to be safe, they have a kid now, he again cant stand her for more than 5 minutes, his life is fucked, why because he thought he had the right one and then it turned out to be the worst one, that is why i dont believe its a good idea to wait for someone you truly like unless you are waiting until your married, if you dont want to wait that long i say find someone you could careless about so that something like this doesnt happen

and let me make myself clear if you want to wait till you get married than i believe that is the best option just dont end up with the wrong girl, be willing to spend your life with her or find a girl you dont want to talk to again to loose your virginity, i know many of you will disagree with this but after seeing this happen to my friends brother and then seeing what that exact same scenario after 35 years of marriage and seeing what that did to my uncles family i dont wish to ever see anyone have to go through that again, its not worth the risk in my mind