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| so last night i smoked 2 blunts with a bunch of people. When we were done 3 of us walked up to the middle school. While we were there my friend asked me if I would ever do it with a guy.... he wasnt kidding... I said no. well im 14 and hes 17 or 18. I have shoulder length blonde hair and wear skinny/tight jeans. I only weigh about 90 pounds. so i look girlish, yeah any advice? Last edited by mannymcballs : 07-14-2008 at 07:41 PM. |
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| Did he ask if you were interested in 'doing it' with him? If not, why are you worried? It just seems like he was putting a question out there. If he is coming on to you then I'd stay away
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| yeah, it WASNT like "dude would ever fuck a guy" It was "dude would you let me fuck you?" |
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| Would you give the same advice if it was a girl? ![]() Seriously, just say "thanks, I'm flattered but not interested" and then go on about your day. If he ignores that then you might need to take further steps, otherwise treat it like you would treat any female that asked that you weren't interested in.
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| I guess chivalry's dead? to clarify: he didn't even ask you to dance first!
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| I'm with Plains. Whats the problem here. Hell, I started getting hit on by guys when I was 13 and it's continued ever since. I've always said no thanks and left it like that. Only a small percentage ever pursued it further but then gave up reasonably quickly. Guys & girls, girls & guys - guys & guys, girls & girls - whatever feels right. Life's way too short to be casting judgment on something that is nobody's business except those whose decision it is...
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| umm my guess is to stop looking like a girl..... /sarcasm Your best bet is that you stay away from him if you are really afraid. Maybe there is a reason that a 18 year old guy wants to hang with a 14 year old boy.....just sayin......
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| Just tell him you're not interested, you'd prefer to stay friends. If he's cool with that and you're cool hanging out, stay friends. If not, part and go your separate ways. It's silly to treat this any differently than you would if a person of the opposite sex expressed a similar sentiment. |
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