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Mushroom Man

Man what a shitty situation. Honestly, the best thing you can do is apologize and go out of your way to make it look like you changed, and be sneaky while smoking for a bit. Theres nothing you can really say to her without looking like your trying to divert the attention to anything other than what you did.

Im not trying to sound like a dick or act like your wrong (cause your not), but taking full responsibility and at least acting like your getting better the way she wants you too is the only way to fully regain her trust

 

o_t00high_o

I do somewhat agree with that.
15 years old is kind of a disputable age to be smoking and knowing full well the consequences and everything about it. But then again it doesn't take TOO much brain power to understand that inhaling smoke is bad for you and that something is illegal and can result in serious penalties.
I know full well men can mature up to around age 22, but to imply that someone under TWENTY doesn't understand everything involving weed enough to make a smart decision on whether or not to smoke it is kind of ignorant.
I mean, as I said, I think a 18 or 19 year old(my age) can make a responsible decision to smoke or not.


Now considering your problem, 15 may be too young, as proved by the fact that you got caught (and by your grandmother no less, who I imagine is even more ignorant to weed than someone else. and less mobile, perceptive, etc). Also, the point of her being your guardian is a good one. If you are going to smoke still though, I wouldn't do it in her house, or even be high around her. If you're going to go against her wishes, at least do it respectively.

Merry-juana

I got caught since I decided I am going to be open about it and I didn't want to lie to her. I didn't out right tell her, but I didn't make an effort to keep it secret. I do beleave I have the necessary maturity to make a decision like that. I must say one thing I can bring up is that they feed me Methamphetamine pills every day against my will for my ADHD, and that to me MJ is a more effective, safer alternative.

WeedAndSnow

Just tell her you are sorry you upset her, and realize that it was a stupid thing to do and you will never do it again. Then just never let her find out again and you should be good. Smoke when you are not in the house, and make sure to put in eye drops if you will be around her when high.

haskins69

Isn't that telling the Youngster To LIE to grandma/mom?
Not the right way to go I my opion that's family and with famly and friends if you lose trust you lose all !!!!
I my opion [I know there like a**holes] if you still chose to smoke just don't say nothing unless confronted then be honest and try to show your trying to be responcable about it.
They may not like your choice but will respect you honesty !!!

 

GREENFOODGAMES

Well how old were all of us when we started smoking? I was 12 and not to toot my horn but live a very succesfull life. Tell her you just wanted to try it once or twice because you were curious, or if it's not to late or for the future tell her it's not pot it's something else.............I used to keep a package of Ahia when I was a kid and said it was that which was a legal herb, got bitched at for smoking but not like it was chronic, smoke if you want but make sure when the time comes you always make the responsible correct decision(s). Dont smoke in the house that's disrespectfull and be overly cautious.

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haskins69

I was 12 and fell in love I won't lie.
but the only thing good my folk's still have to say about it is , at least I've been honest!!!
they don't like my choice but accept it as part of my life just not at their house or in front of them at my own , again it's all about RESPECT !!!

Merry-juana

You say that but I must say I have been honest with them all the time, and I am honest about pretty much everything, and right now I find all it does is get me into trouble and in sticky situations. I really do not like the idea of sneaking around to smoke, to me it is equal to lying, and as long as I can find a good place to hide my stash and I would burn incense when I smoke, but that is about as far as I am willing to go.

Oh and btw I know it is disrespectful to smoke in the house, but one of their main concerns is me getting caught by the police, and I am WAY more likely to get caught by the police if I smoke outside the house. Right now I am thinking it would be fine if I smoke in my own room, since even though I am not paying for it, it is my room, and I feel my room is my property (even though it is not legally my property) since I have no choice but to live with them, at least until I am 18 and it is legal for me to leave their custody and legal for me to actually work.

haskins69

sounds like you've made up your mind and made choices, and that's all you can do is make choices and stick to them , good luck hope your choices work for you .