1sarah5

I blaze a lot and about 6 months ago I had the feeling that my best friend wanted to see what she was missing and I smoked her out. My best friend and I have blazed a couple times together since then, and I know she's blazed with other people and let me tell you she is annoying as FUCK when she's high.

I don't know what it is, but it seems like the filter in her brain that controls what her actions just shuts off completely. She's embarrassing and loud. She tells everyone her secrets, and worst of all, she throws up. A lot. And then tells everyone about it. She'll say the meanest things to me, calling me a whore and saying I dressed like a hooker, and then claims she's kidding. No one thinks it's funny besides her. She can't control herself, even in front of her parents. It's like she's an entirely different person, and I can't stand it.

On top of all that, she has anxiety and is taking zoloft. I don't know if it's safe for her to smoke? And now she wants to start smoking by herself and I'm afraid she's going to loose friends if she's high all the time.

She's already lost a couple friends (even a potential love interest) because of how annoying she is when she's high. She'll say the most terrible things and the next day act be completely unaware of what happened.

I love her so much and I don't want anything bad to happen to her. She might get caught, lose friends or it might interact with her zoloft.

I really want to talk to her but she's really stubborn, I know I can't control her but I really don't know what the fuck to do. Now when she wants to hang out, she wants to smoke but I really don't want to with her she just kills my high. Then she gets mad. AND my birthday is coming up and all we're going to do at my party is toke it and I'm afraid she's going to be really embarrassing or throw up again. Last time she threw up at my house my mom found out and got all suspicious and started grilling me.

ricknosnhoj

All I can say is to tell her to MELLOW OUT!
Does she have to smoke a lot to throw up? Maybe she's allergic to marijuana or something. I know in my case when I smoke, some of it goes into my stomach and if I smoke a lot it causes me to throw up.
I know that some antidepressants will multiply the effects of the high, but I'm not sure about zoloft. It'd be safe to say that she probably shouldn't smoke while taking it.

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1sarah5

Yeah I know but she still thinks it's okay.

She'll have like two really tiny bowls and she throws up.

Yeah I've told her to mellow out but she doesn't seem to get it...

I don't want to tarnish our relationship by being mean you know?

Audio

It could because of the zoloft, its one type of SSRI antidepressants. Some people have reported negative affects from smoking weed and taking SSRIs, and others have said that mixing the two was fine for them. I used to take prozac which is another SSRI and I actually felt kinda shitty after smoking when I was taking it.

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locket

sometimes you can do what i call a "stomach hit" and that makes most people throw up. It's not nice. So maybe she just needs to adjust how she hits.

and i think you should just sit her down, and be brutally honest with her. Tell her how annoying she is, and how it really kills everyone's high. I knew someone who was similar to her, and I told them that they weren't being funny, they just looked like a complete fool, and they totally mellowed out. She might be trying to exaggerate the high cos she thinks its funny, and maybe she likes the attention or something...so just tell her she's the biggest downer ever and thats why you never wanna blaze with her. That would smarten me up pretty fast. stubborn or not.

hope it works out and hope you have a great birthday.

o_t00high_o

Sounds to me like you can tell her, and potentially "tarnish" you two's relationship. Or not tell her, get way too annoyed/angered by it and lose that friendship completely.

Swallowing smoke sucks.

Exactly.

str8dank

i noticed that with a lot of people when they first started smoking. I started like a year before a bunch of the kids i smoke with now and when they first started they were really annoying like that and then after months of smoking they finally mellowed out. It was like everytime they got high it was like their forst time and they would geek out and ruin my high just becasue they were acting like 5 year olds.

i dont know what to say about the throwing up. I have seen 1 person throw up from smoking weed and that is becasue they got some nasty ass gravity bong water in their mouth.

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Buzzby

All you can do is tell her the truth: she's such a fucking pain-in-the-ass to be around when she's high that you don't want to be around her under those circumstances. That puts the ball in her court. She'll have to decide what's more important to her, getting high all the time or hanging out with you.

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o_t00high_o

Yes, that or her friend can make willing effort to change her habits. She can be high all the time and not annoying possibly.

troublemaker_42

100% agree~~~~ No one is "making" her smoke pot, and if she's driving people away with her behaviors, she needs to learn how to put them in check. Peresonally, I have zero tolerance for people who have zero self-control. People learn to realize that, high or not, they are responsibloe for wha tthey do and say, no matter how hurtful, embarrassing, etc. If she can't "man up" and learn to handle her drugs, it doesn't sound as if anyone would tolerate her "high" behavior for long. I can't....see my user title? 0tolerance4BS, and this type of behavior is certainly "BS" in my book!

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