lMarijuana lMan

Okay.. so the other night I got really wasted at a friend's house and ended up walking home at 2am, slipping on the ice and falling everywhere. A few girls found me walking in the wrong direction towards my home and asked if I'd like some guidance... I promptly accepted.

We ended up coming back to my place where they left me a note and told me not to read it until the next morning (which I did... since I passed out shortly after they left).

The note said they both had fun and they left both of their numbers, I texted them back the next day to thank them.

The thing is, one of the girls I found quite attractive (at least from what I can remember).. and I already suggested to her that we hang out sometime, and she agreed.

The thing is.. I don't really know what to do now, I asked if she was doing carnival this year (carnival is a drinking weekend here at my university) and she said no and asked why... and I just said I was wondering if we'd cross paths, and perhaps another time.. to which she never responded.

Now 2 days later, I don't know if I should just wait for her to contact me (which could be never) or should I text her again when I have some plans?

House party, club, bar... or lazer tag! (got 8 free tickets)

The reason I felt she was interested is because we had our arm's linked the whole walk home and I think we were talking about something pretty interesting.... wish I could remember.

Anyways, end of rant... any thoughts/opinions/suggestions on my situation are appreciated.. positive or negative, thanks everyone.

timiscute

Definitely lazer tag. If she passes up an opportunity for free lazer tag she's not worth your time anyway....Good luck dude

~Tim

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VaporizorMariJ

If I was you id definatly send her another text asking to hangout and if she doesnt sound interested the second time then atleast you know you tried.

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RotiEatter

Just call her. Ask her out.

If she says no, fuck it. If she says yes, well fuck it too then, haha. Simple situation man. Don't over think something so simple. Just smoke a bowl, relax, and call her up. Good luck!

RotiEatter

ps- don't text her, call her.

Girls don't like it if you try to set up dates through text messages, its like asking her out through an e-mail. They want some romance or to atleast feel like you really care, so call her up!

Up In Smoke

They want to hear a voice.

Call and dont push the "why" questions.

She gave you her number, so listen.

lMarijuana lMan

Thanks guys for the quick responses..

I'll definitely be calling her, just not really sure what to propose to her..

She lives pretty close to me (5-10 minute walk) and is a year younger.. so she's still in residence, and I'll be doing carnival from Thursday (tomorrow) until Sunday.. but I'd like to be able to see her sometime throughout that period.

When you guys say "just call and ask her out...", what sort of fun things would you suggest if she accepts?

I'm only asking because keep in mind, we've only met once... and I was super hammered when she was here for a few minutes with her friend..
I'm a really laid back guy but I'd just like to know what you guys would do in this situation.

wooitsmolly

I'd personally try to hang out with her one on one (not invite her to a party or to hang with your friends) only because that way you two can really get to know each other and she won't have to worry about making a good impression on you and twenty of your friends, you know? I'd also avoid drinking a lot just because of how you two met (don't want to give the impression you have a drinking problem and it can cause people to do things they might regret... Of course I'm assuming you're thinking this could potentially lead to a relationship, not just a hook up or something.

I'd recommend inviting her over to watch a movie or something... maybe go out for coffee if that's your thing, or take her for a walk in the park where you could talk... lol im high and getting sappy... Good luck

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digdoug

Definitely take her out to eat or something,that way if she does want to drink,you could order some drinks at the resturant to start. That will also give you a chance to get to know her and see what her interest are. you have to know SOMETHING about her before you take her to a party or around a lot of people.

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RotiEatter

Ask her out for a cup of coffee, offer to take her to dinner, take her somewhere fun and interactive... Not sure what else to suggest.

Just call her and say that you wanted to return the favor by taking her to dinner.