Some Kind Of JokE?

Hey guys. This is my fisrt post on the forums

anyway, ive been smoking for a couple years now (maybe less, idk xD), and my Mom has know about it for quite some time. She has never punished me, or lectured me. She only says i should "be carefull". She knows about pot and how most of the propaganda is ...well propaganda, because she grew up in the 70s
but my dad is really strict, and my mom has never told him that i smoke.

anyway, a few days ago i got caught sneeking out the house with my friends at night (i didnt get home 'till like 5 am.) and my mom starts talking about how there bad infuences on me, and how she doesnt want me throwing my life away. She deosnt let me hang out with that guy anymore unless we stay at my house, and shes there. But shes VERY vauge. I dont know if shes trying to get me to quit smoking, or just stop ..."making bad choices".

And yesterday she found a lighter that reaked of weed, she told me she found it, but when i looked in my drawer it was still there. I told her i was surprised she didnt throw it away and she said "I only throw away trash" lol.

So i was wondering what you guys think...? my Mom is too vauge and inconsistent for me to understand. Any advise?



alos sorry for super long post :P

Wicked

It seems to me that your mother is open-minded about marijuana, but she is still doing her job as a parent. Whether or not she's cool with you smoking pot or not has absolutely nothing to do with you staying out until 5 AM, just because she's cool with you smoking pot doesn't mean she's cool with you staying out all hours of the night potentially affecting your grades, or even costing you your freedom for being out at such a late time, since most states have curfews for minors.

I'd say that since she's giving you some slack on the parental noose, don't hang yourself with it. Look at it this way, she's not snitching you out to your obviously stricter father, she's not punishing you for smoking pot, so respect her rules and be in at a reasonable hour or whenever your curfew is.

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hippie557

Exactly this. Don't sneak out and stay out till 5 am. Seriously, there are more dangers out there at that time of day then you would even want to know about. There could be a serious time when you encounter a drunk driver who may or may not put you and any of your friends in danger. Respect your moms wishes to not stay out late and always tell them where/what you're doing.

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If your mom trust you to let you smoke marijuana and still keep a good life why throw it away and make stupid choices? Isint this a chance to prove to her that marijuana dosent effect your desicious and not to do stupid things. She trust that you will not make abd desicion's so dont brake her trust.

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cannabicide420

it sounds like she doesnt care about the marijuana and that shes just upset with you sneaking out till 5 AM. shes looking out for you. do you have to go to school? if so 5 AM is a little to late to be out. then it affects go to school and maybe thats what she means by making bad decisions. if she doesnt care if you smoke i would do what she says, especially since its extremely reasonable.

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jdogg2112

Yup, I agree with what's been said already. The fact that your mom is understanding of marijuana and is also being a good parent is what's confusing you. If I were you I'd be very grateful and respectful of her.

lMarijuana lMan

.... man if my mom didn't care about me smoking in HS at all (i'm guessin you're in high-school too) I wouldn't try and "squeeze her for what she's worth" so to speak.

I'd be more respectful of her if anything, appreciate her respect for my decision, and I'll show my appreciation by respecting her wishes especially when it comes to something like staying out until 5am.

She's just being a good mother and worrying about your safety, her baby... as much as you don't like it, she'll probably see you as her baby for the rest of your life. My mom probably will

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