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papichoolo

This post is to dreamyAJ.i know why you do not like him smoking weed on his own.you are somehow relating it to sex in which it is a experience shared with someone that causes pleasure.you even said it hurts you like cheating.but ill tell you getting high with a female is the best thing in the worls.i used to get high with a whole bunch of females and they took goo dcare of me if i got too messed up.it was also fun becasue i got some off them afterwards.but my point is maybe you wanna be the one who takes care of him when he is too messed up but its most probably the sex thing.

 

technobudz

yo dude, just quit the weed, and go for the girl. I mean would u rather have a person that you love,a nd they love you back, or stick to a drug? trust me this might be the girl for you, don't LT any drugs ruin it, i had the same problem with my gf, i was taking his particular drug alot and she pissed, many fights over it, i tried to hide it, but she coul tell by the way i was acting, i dont do those drugs anymore, but me and my girlfriend smoke bud togethor..

SonOfAGlitch

I'm sorry about your girlfriend's home life, and for what i'm about to tell you about it.

Your gf's mom tells her she's not worthy of love, etc, that's a stage three form of verbal emotional abuse, guess what stage two involves. That's right, emotional manipulation (for instance, telling your son "it hurts mommy when you take the cookie" and building on that until you feel guilty for even looking at a chocolate chip..). it's the f**ked up version of 'aversion therapy' where the therapist (your gf) attempts to change you or your habits by making you associate something unpleasant (her emotional stress) with something you enjoy (smoking pot) so that you will no longer find it pleasant. very similar to that pill that makes people nauseas from nicotine.

I know this is difficult, but you have to stand up for yourself. Explain to her that you do not mean to hurt her but you're not going to give up on her or marijuana, you love them both and if she decides to leave you because of it it's her choice, NOT yours, so she cannot blame you and say you forced her.

If you're anything like the textbook examples and a specific friend of mine you also may have low self esteem or think you're not good enough for her and that you deserve to change... just remind yourself that if you change to be with her then it wasn't you she wanted to be with, it was you version 2.0.

The most important thing you can tell her is that you love her and would never do anything to hurt her, and it's not you smoking pot that hurts her, it's her perception of what pot is doing to you.

this is all on the assumption she is sincere, 99% of the time someone attempts this emotional manipulation they are completely insincere about the true reasoning.

PeacePipe

I reall cant offer any advice but i just wanted to lend you a shoulder and tell you how much of a bummer that is, i had a gf like that once...i gave it up for a month or so then she broke it off. but im sorry to hear bout you dilema