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Oo Gish oO

So I come home from work....to find a packed bowl and a bong missing along with my attic torn up from looking for stuff. Some stuff that was found but not taken was a 60 dollar cleansing drink, a cup of dirt (heh), and a thing full of seeds. The only thing not found was my stash which was in a different place. So my mom picks me up from work and she acts FINE, we talk GREAT and she even laughed a few times (NONE of it weird, awkward, or suspicious). To this minute she still hasn't said one word about it. I got caught about 6 months ago with a quarter of middies, a bowl, and some other random paraphanalia (sp?). That time it was serious, she was all upset blah blah called my dad...it sucked. Between then and now she once in a while acuses me of being high or getting high...its no big deal because she had no proof..man this really sucks...I don't know what to do...should i straight up ask her about it? I wanna tell her its just a ****ing plant and i smoke a ****ing flower of a plant...WHO CARES.. .

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Oo Gish oO

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i know how that is

i woke up tho and look over to where i keep a box with my stuff and its missing so im like uhmmm what..

i thought i was soo stoned the night before that i put it else where..but nope...so then im like **** they found my stash.....a lil later i ask about it.and sure enough they had...

had a small talk not too bad..


good luck

Oo Gish oO

thanks for replying, i just confronted my mom about it, i was ready to ask for my bowl back. i worded it not saying weed or anything liek that...she was liek whats wrong...cuz i guess i look a lil gloomy..i was like mom you know..she acted 100% clueless...or maybe she is?? her friends here too, maybe she took it? they went in my attic to find her yearbook...egiheuigohguiohe i dunno . yeah i really didn't feel like hitting shift or anything..just rambling.

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maybe she didnt take it

who knows..dont ask again..cuase then if she did take it..it will just cuase more problems

maybe the friend took it..who knows

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Coolguy

Tell her that you worked and earned your money and that you made the decision on what to spend it on. Give it back mommy pleeeease!

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Slightly Stoopid

Your mom probably dosn't want you to get in trouble, and that is why she did that. If your mom gets mad that you are smoking pot, you shouldn't get pissed off. At the very least you know that she cares for you, even though she is showing that care by not allowing you to smoke a harmless plant.

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zoltron

Now let me see if I understand this right...your bits of paraphenalia & pipes are missing? But your weed was in a different place & not found? Your mom hasn't said squat about it? I wouldn't say another thing about it until you hear something from her...like you said, it might not have even been her who discovered it...maybe her friend as suggested. Don't open your mouth unless personally confronted! A few seeds & pipes missing, you can deal with. Pounds gone would be a totally different scene...good luck, dude...keep us posted!

imported_mukie

Wow man that brings up recent memories. The same thing happened to me more or less. A glass pipe was stolen from my room along with a little weed. I confront all my friends the next day and none confessed. So I went to my parents " Did either of you take my pot and glass pipe from my room?" I thought it would be respectable to take the high road and just be blunt about it

Turns out they didnt take it and now my step mom calls me a stoner constantly and is always acting suspicious. I hate it when the "mature" adults act like their 11. Hope you have better luck finding you stuff man. If you live near westfield mabey we were hit by the same theif!!

jvthc

Sounds like she might be a good actress.

She might want to know if you'll just come out and say it or not.

A quick check of your profile reveals you're 16. I take it your parents are divorced.

So she doesn't approve, puts on a little heat but doesn't otherwise drive you into protective seclusion. That’s not such a bad deal.

I recall, once, I somehow left a condom in my pants pocket, and it wound up in the washer. My mother simply left me a note, suggesting that the washer probably voided the warranty. That was 1979.

If she’s not the one that found it, then you have a thief among you. On the other hand, if we assume it was her, we have an interesting situation.

This is a gray area. She’s probably not entirely decided within her own mind just how to deal with the subject. Until you have kids of your own, you wouldn’t have a clue just how it changes your thinking. One day, when you’re 30 something, you’ll be banging your head against the wall in disbelief over just how much you’ve turned into your parents. Don’t think it won’t happen. It will, and you simply won’t believe it when you realize it already happened. It may be the day when your son is discovered smoking pot.

And don’t tell me that since YOU smoke, and understand it’s harmless, that you will simply let him slide. That’s not the point! Your outlook will be different, more than you could possibly predict. I know. I AM that person. I smoked from age 14 (though I never got caught). It’s not always about the pot, though some parents whose minds are convinced it’s a demon’s method of possession of their child do think it's about the pot.

It’s the law. The very last entity in the world I want discovering my son has smoked marijuana is any representative of government, from school to cops. To that end, the longer I can keep him from trying it, the better off we’ll be. On the other hand, I don’t think I’ll freak, but after what I’ve learned about people, and myself, over the years, I’m not entirely certain I won’t. Well, I’m fairly confident I will be understanding about it; I’m rarely prone to emotional overreaction. I hope to delay that particular introduction until the very last possible moment, if for no other reason but to simplify things.

That said, if she is the “culprit” here, then she’s giving you space while at the same time having confiscated the stuff. That’s a bit self contradictory, and may be a sign that she want’s to be in charge, but give you some space. It also means she’s not certain what to do, so she’s trying something new. If so, run with it for now. Give her space, and improve your stealth, or quit altogether. Generating conflict certainly can't help either of you.

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