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bytemee495

Honestly...I've got to admitt I've been kinda down. I have been workin on starting some little tap roots in soil just for personal consumption. I've never grown before, so I just figured I'd throw caush in the wind. I am a regular smoker, with a regular group of friends I smoke with (literally) every night. Mainly cause they all still live with their parents and I have my own place. I don't mind letting them chill, cause they're all kids I work with. Although I do get tired of them sometimes...what really gets to me is all the shit I hear outside of my little house. "oh...I hear you're being watched by the cops" "I hear you're a dealer" "I hear you're doing this drug or that drug"...this shit just pisses me off soooo much. Does anyone else deal with that? The first thing that annoys me...is I don't know if these are just rumors?...I can't imagin a cop pullin up and talkin to my boss (one of the people who said my house was being watched for dealing) and sayin "oh hey...by the way..."bytemee's appartment is being watched"....Like...when would that come up in conversation?! But...on the other hand...if I'm hearing all these rumors...what's to say cops aren't. ya know? I've just been hearing all to much of this stuff. On the one hand...I don't hide the fact that I smoke. I have been diagnosed with severe anxiety attacks, and am seeing a theropist about it. She knows I smoke, and considers it self medication. So I don't really hide the fact that I smoke. I just try and stay educated about it, and what I'm doing. I try not to do dumb things like smoke and drive etc., unless I absolutly have to. I can drive fine...but I know in reality that I have slower reflexes etc., so I just try and do the responsible thing and not drive while I'm high. I also try and educate those friends that I have who are younger and haven't smoked, to show them how to do it safely and responsibly. But recently...I am feeling more like I am going to have to go in hiding, and tell everyone I'm not smoknig. Stop having my smoking crew over, and like...toke in secret. Let no one know. Becuase it's obvious that everyone has an opinion AND a big mouth. Everytime I sign on here, I feel like I'm home. Around people who don't judge me based on my beliefs and actions. People who are in the same struggle I am. So thank you to everyone here for the support!!!!! KEEP BLAZIN!!!

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mastagata

yeah man just tell them to chill the hell out, or get out, or just tell them like you said, "i am not smoking anymore i dont like it anymore, and you cant come over to my house to smoke anymore".

something like that may help...it sucks to have your smoking buddies be bitches like that...sorry man. we are all part of the pro-plant struggle.

keep up the work against plant bias (hahaha)

its funny cause im half joking half not.

ZeppelinHero

dont disallow your crew from chillin with you and smoking, thats kinda like breaking a friendship. BUT weed out the bad ones that cuase the most problems for you ( Opening there Large Mouth, Forming oppinions based on BS) and pick the good ones. im sure if you have your crew over, you atleast like 1 or 2 of them, and are close to them. im assuming though, correct me if im wrong?

ADIDAS

Sounds like an oddly similar situation that I am in. Very oddly. I just recently moved into my own house at 19 and all my smoking pals come over everynight and toke. Although we for the most part have a really good time, there are days where Im like just fucking leave so I can get back to sleep or flickin my bean ya know? But here is where it differs a bit. I dont have threats coming from the cops or hardly anyone at all. I am fresh out of highschool so there are definately rumors going around that I deal, smoke 24/7 (not too far from the truth). I recently heard that a girl in school got busted and wrote down a huge list of people that smoke, which I was told I was on. Who in the hell would do such a childish thing. They are looking for kids that are in school so they can bust them, not ones minding their own business smoking in a different city and with NOBODY in highschool. It is rediculous but I dont really let it bother me that much. I know a cop isnt going to come knocking at my door, but it still is in the back of my mind about all the rumors being spread around as we talk.

EDIT: I dont think he wants to kick out his friends and never have them over again, just that he does need his alone time every now and then. If the kids you hang out with are still in school, then there is truly no avoiding the talking unless you dont talk to them. Highschool is just a large gossip gathering. That is why I dont smoke with anybody in highschool. It makes me sound like a prick and like Im trying to act cool, but in all reality, it is the truth.

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imported_SBsurferdude

i think everyone has non smokers aproach them asking them if they smoke or if they are dealers and they tell them how bad it is and blah blah blah and i know because i use to do it before i smoked shame on me at school people that dont smoke talk about it to me and somtimes loud and by teachers they assume im a dumbass and get bad grades but im usually smarter then them my situation doesnt seem as big as yours but it pretty much happens to everyone other people just talk your name comes up and then your targeted as a stoner
i think i got kinda off track on this but mabye not lol

 

blondie0420

If these "friends" really think you're being watched by the cops, why are they still going over to your house to smoke? If they think the police aren't going to put 2 + 2 together and start looking after them, then they're seriously mistaken.

Personally, I'd tell those friends that maybe they should stop coming over every single day, because, if anything, that's going to look suspicious right there. If you're smoking alone inside your house, curtains drawn, the police (and your neighbors) aren't going to have much to suspect.

Just be careful, not everyone needs to know that you smoke weed.

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ZeppelinHero

I bilieve that as long as you have trust with the friends that are in highschool and ( are around your age) or close, that there really shouldnt be a problem, i have some friends in highschool that certainly dont have any problem keeping there mouth shut. maybe talk to them and tell them how it has been, if they are not understanding then id say there is a problem.