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JiggsCasey

i also hate people that use the term.. "a phone works both ways" and they make no effort to call.
or people who live in a apt w/ 4 people live there with full time jobs that pay decent. and they cant pay there cellbill or the Cable/internet/phone....
yeah JOSH.. hehe he willnever read this.. and seems to forget my phonenumber.. even tho i have had the same cell number for 2 years... whatever.

 

MrEddy

I know how you feel. I"m sure this friend of your's is probably Mr. Popular. It's always the popular types that have this personality of never showing up anywhere and if they do they are never ontime. They have never had to be because people were always accepting of that fact that they were late or didn't show cuz they were popular. i hate those types really. I know a couple of them and i'm friends with a couple of them.

The key thing to remember when dealing with them is that you just need to accept that idea that anytime you ever ask them to go somewhere or be somewhere or do something, that they WONT actually do that. If you are planning a get together or something make sure and plan it in such a way that when he doesn't show it doesn't matter.

When I plan a movie night with friends or a game night or a smoking night. I set a time for meet up and if you aint there we go. Either you catchup or you don't come along.

And my final point that I hate to have to tell you but its absolutly true. Your friend.... well... he's not really much of a friend and he doesn't really care much about you or your feelings at all. I'd be willing to bet if you were in a car crash and in the hospital you'd be lucky if he made a 5 minute appearance. So stop expending so much energy on him.

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Plainsman1963

Jeez, put it in perspective.

You had plans for one weekend messed up. If it's a common happening with this person, well quit being his friend and find somebody who will treat you with the respect you expect.

Yeah it's a bummer you didn't get a heads up so you could make other plans. Might have a boring night. How many nights you got in your life?
Is this really something that is going to matter a hill of beans in 10 years? 20?

Would assaulting the person that has hurt your feelings make it a better night, or worse? Really? Not personal satisfaction, but the possibility of jail (breaking his legs will get ya there) and how many bad nights will that multiply this one bad night by?

Time to chill the fuck out and go for a walk or run or something. Get out of your head for a bit and cool off.

My opinion, anyway.

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lidsack

Hakuna Matata, what a wonderful phrase. It means no worries for the rest of your dayyyyys!!! Its our problem free... phi lo so phy. Great song I just downloaded it

imported_JohnnyPotSmoker

He's from england... we dont understand their slang haha

 

Jake

"oh my person X didn't call me"

...are you a female?

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L0st_St0ker

haha, what a call, so true

Draig[uk]

Sorry, I think everyone has misunderstood why I'm pissed off. It's not the fact he blew me off, obviously thats irritated me, but the main thing is the shit he said to me just suddenly made me realise how much he shyed me off. I dunno it's hard to explain. Over here, we have a VERY close knit group - you really only hang out if you are a real friend. I honestly can't even repeat what he said, it was just obscene. That is what pissed me off the most.

And don't worry, I didn't go break his legs. I just had a couple of reefs and chilled out a bit, then told him why I was pissed off and shit. Just told him I didn't want to come across him again, told him I'm not even gonna waste any effort on him basically.

My main gripe with this thread is "who is roni size?" lol. get on limewire, get yourself some roni size. Absolutely sick tunes man.

Cheers for the advice anyways everyone, like I said I have anger management issues and it's nice to be able to have people with level heads (you guys) to lead me in the right direction.

And yeah, Hakuna Matata. Realised I couldn't go to the party, so I brought the party to me. Got absolutely wankered and high as a kite. Absolutely brilliant. Thankyou all

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cheachea

thats the type of guy that did the columbine....it all slowly builds up inside

SuperTorch

Yea it's your problem your angry. The reason your angry you already said -"This is the last time" - that is YOU let him do it to you, and your pissed off at yourself for that, not at him, and your to BLAME not him. I have had friends that have did this shit to me also, just lame shit in my opinion. But then I relized that they were energy vampires sucking at my time and spirt, I don't feell the need to get angry I just realized it and knocked them down to -lets not talk unless it the end of the world - status, I never called them again even after a - 15 year talk everyday/week friendship It was always a poor friendship but I didn't listen to my intutition. Then one day he moved just like that out of the blue to a state where his childhood friend lived in. With in 2-3 days of him being gone I reallized HOW GOOD I FELT, like a burden had lifted off my sholder and I knew it was because he was gone, And from that point forward I never answered a call he gave me, I got his cell# and home# and work# all pluged into my cell with his name attached to them so when he calls I know not to answer. We just weren't ment to be budies and it's been way better since we droped off. Its your problem that you didn't see it for what it is, you can't justify yourself by saying I kept doing him favors and more favors only to be shyed, what happen was you kept FORCING something that was lame to start with. I've did it and been pissed myself. Now with all my friends I listen to myself more. Your friend will never be a GREAT friend quit trying to make him one! Find someone you relate to more. The your going over to kick his ass makes you look like you 11 years old, blow off the tuff guy crap and just blow off the dude too, there doesnt HAVE TO BE A DEFFINATE ENDING POINT to the relationship(You beating him up to signal the end of it) just don't put anymore time into it, you'll both be better for it, Hes sick of you too thats why he said the shit he did. If you hang with him again and the same shit happens 6 months later, your the only one to blame, you control yourself. I'm not being harsh just telling you your incharge of you so your responsable.