RipToad

I used to always think of how i would be such a cool dad and let my kids do whatever they wanted to. But as I think about it more, things have changed. I am still a long way from having kids, but i've thought about it a lot.
I definately do not want to be a parent who is extrememly uptight about dank and flip a bitch if I caught my kid. But on the other hand I dont want to allow my kids to smoke at my house or help them get it. Because I have seen what happens when parents do that, and the kids are all fuck ups. My friend is in that same situation and has like a 1.2 GPA. He might be having hella fun now, but I know he won't be succesful in the least bit in his life.
However like I stated early, I dont want to be a square ass pig who monitors their kids life. So if I caught my kid with drugs, I would not punish them, but i wouldnt encourage it.
But if he's in highschool with a lot of success in school, and will be going to college i think i would let it slide. Because my other friends brother was/is responsible about it and is going to dartmouth.

I guess this is all just coming out because i have parents who punished the shit out of me when they caught me. It's never been the same relationship between us and I hate it. I just don't want my kid being in the same situation.

Does anyone else ever think about this type of shit?