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KMKbuzz4-2-0

Well cool cool. Then I guess just make sure you hide the stuff you put in the bong very well, and don't use it unless you're outside. But really...how many times have you been caught?

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KMKbuzz4-2-0

Well had you read my post I started off and ended with how there is no justification for hitting him like that. Arrrg. Please read my whole sequence of posts before talking to me about them. I'm not saying it was all his problem but when you live in a house where you have been caught and with parents who are that strict about weed you have to be more careful. And he found the blunt he went back to what he was doing before he found it... "i set the blunt on the bed, and was looking for my remote"... It would take 5 seconds to find a more secure hiding place. Yea it sucks that he has to be so careful about weed but when you're somewhere with peole who have made it very clear they don't want you smoking you just have to be like that.

I don't think I was getting on his case that bad, and I pointed out in my posts(more than once in the first one) that the physical abuse was wrong so don't even try to make it seem like I think his dad hitting him was justified. I was trying to tell him that since he knows his dad is so against pot he has to be cautious. <-- See anything about me saying his dad hitting him was right? Do you see it any of the my posts? NO, because I was saying the reason his parents get so upset isn't just the pot smoking its the disrespect that they feel when their rules are ignored.

K0TT0NM0UTHK!NG

Umm, i dont know how many times i have been caught. My parents shouldnt be strict about weed because they have a whole shit load of bongs, and other paraphanellia. 5 seconds is about the amount of time it took him to walk in the room after i found it. I put it on my bed right after i found it, and i was trying to move my bed back to normal, and he walked in. If he would have walked in and i had the blunt hid, but my bed as all weird, he would have been suspicious and just searched my room anyways. It was a total lose-lose situation i guess. Atleast i found a blunt, and had it for a few seconds, lol.

KMKbuzz4-2-0

Ohh ok...at first you were looking for your remote after you set it down...well that sucks then. And that really sucks that just because your bed is moved your whole room would get searched. Find some kind of electronic thing that takes C or D batteries and put your bag in there, because if they're going far enough as to search there you may want to consider putting off smoking until you move out.

About your parents and their bongs...well... I tried to use that as a reason why I should be allowed to smoke after finding their pipes but they would always say "Well I'm an adult who can keep a job and has a house. When you are too I'd be happy to burn a joint with you." I don't know...if I were you I wouldn't use the whole "but you do it too!" line...it got me nowhere...but hey I'm not you, I'm me and you're you so rock on.

Dark

Christ, really man? Cmon. Did I ever say you said it was justified he hit him? No. I read your responses, and I saw that you said it wasn't right to hit him. I just feel we should be more focused on the violence rather than the kid being wrong for having the blunt in the house. I wasn't even coming down on you hard, I was just pointing out the fact that there's no need to tell him to be careful and all this other shit because I'm sure he knows it already. I didn't want to start nothing from my statement, I just feel the real problem here is that his father fucking hit him, not that the kid didn't have enough time to hide a blunt, and it's pretty hard to see any sort of "lesson" from this experience.

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Again, hindsight is 20/20, but what you SHOULD have done was say, "Oh, I'm looking for my remote, and I found this blunt. Can you throw it out for me on the way out?" Since you've already been caught, it's not like you would have been risking anything, and you could probably even prove it was old by how dry it was if he didn't believe you. If he hadn't of asked, it would've been fine to say nothing, but this would've looked like a stand up move to him.

Of course, your father shouldn't have punched you either way, especially not a rabbit punch like that. Even aside from the general wrongness of beating your children, a rabbit punch is a cowardly attack.

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KMKbuzz4-2-0

You may not have really came down on me hard or whatever, but you did say it seemed like I thought it was his fault for getting socked in the head by his own father and thats not the point I was trying to get across at all. Yea I got a little defensive about it because when I was 5-12 years old my dad would beat the shit out of me for a half hour if he had a bad day(3-4times a week)...so I tend to get a little hostile when this issue comes up.

Fine forget about lessons...whatever...that was a poor choice of words because I didn't mean it in a condescending way like "You sure learned you lesson!" I meant it more like "Now you know just how crazy that guy can get about pot so be extra cautious."

poeticbliss

Similar situation happened to my older brother when he was in high school. He was arguing with my mom then my dad came home. They got in each others faces and my dad hit him. My brother had a really bad black eye and he broke his wrist/arm in two places. It was a really crazy day and when the cops showed up my mom turned my brother in for possession.

They wanted him to serve the jail time to teach him a lesson but he ended up getting off with probation. I understand why they turned him in because he was also addicted to crystal meth, plus he had a horrible drinking habit but I will never agree with my dad beating him up.