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| On Saturday my friend called me up and asked if I would go with him while he got a bag. I said yes and we got it, then later on I met up with him again and we smoked some of it. He has a history of getting caught which is why I didn't want to go to his house right after we smoked, so I declined his offer and drove around for a bit to air out. He went straight home. After I drove around for a bit my other friend called me up and asked if I wanted to grab some food. Well what do you think hell yeah I did so we went and got some sushi. Anyway we finished eating and parted ways and I headed home. Once I get there my mom asked me where I was, which was odd because I told her before I left I was going to my friend's house. I told her that I was, in fact, at his house and she responded with "Really? Because I just got off the phone with his parents and they said you weren't there." Keep in mind that I was still a little high and this threw me off guard, but I then told her I went and got food with my other friend (which was true, although I omitted the smoking pot part). She asked me if I was stoned, I declined, but then she compares my pupils to hers in the mirror and I was busted. They are now selling my car, leaving me without transportation as a junior and possibly senior in high school (which is gonna suck serious bunghole). The reason I got caught is because the friend I smoked with went straight home and must've been blatantly high because his dad confronted him. He proceeded to tell his dad HE WAS FUCKING WITH ME and I went to get the bag with him, but I didn't smoke. His parents called mine, and told them they thought I was probably high. So essentially my friend was sloppy, and ended up screwing me over. Had he not gone straight home, or had he fabricated the story, or had he left my name out of it all together I would've been fine. But no. Of course this fucking happens. I accept my responsibility in the situation because I was the one who chose to smoke, but it just seems that the trouble I'm in could've been so easily avoided. So my advice to all of you, if you aren't supposed to be smoking in the first place, don't do it with some sketch kid who has a history of fucking up. You'll get screwed. |
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| If i were you i would beg for your car back and agree to take drug tests even say you will pay for them. Pass them and after time they MIGHT start trusting you again and might let you drive your car. Tell them that selling your car is only going to make you angry with them and wont stop you from smoking . Say you want to stop smoking on your own. (even if you dont, passing a home drug test is pretty easy) When i get suspected by my parents i keep my mouth shut and really dont say a word. Just listen and respond to questions simply when asked. That's really my personality though, i dont talk much. I good one for where have you been is i was at the park playing frisbee/soccer/football with people from school. Never smoke with kids who cant handle it. If they freak out when they smoke they will most likely rat out friends when questioned, even those that dont still do. You should always always have an excuse set up before you go into the house, but i guess it your case it did not really matter. If i were you i would have a serious word with the friend who told on you. Ultimately you were the one that smoked so you have to face the consequences, but it could have easily been avoided if your friend was not so dumb . |
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| Wow. Sorry to hear about what happened. Is there any chance that your parents might lessen the punishment a bit? |
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| damn that sucks... |
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| that sucks same kinda shit happened to me, with my neighbor, she was pretty chill and hot, so i smoked with her, her weed, went home barley high it was crap, smoked like ditch weed, but what ever weed is weed, 2 weeks later my mom confronts me do you smoke pot, of course i said no, but she was going to drug test me and i had just smoked a day b4 and the whole week befor so i said yes i blaze, she freaked out, i was a freshmen back then, didnt have a car, thats why im trying not to get caught again, but have told them i wil smoke when im older, it pisses them off but it leaves them less suprised the next time then a little after that they went searching my room and found a pipe, that sucked but they didnt care as much because i had already told them i would continue to smoke |
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| Did you learn anything else other than not to smoke with a retard? How about this little tidbit...DENY DENY DENY. Don't admit to anything and stick to your story. |
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| That sucks man. I'd suggest what the 2nd poster said. Tell them you'll take drug tests and you'll pay for em then just do it for a while. It means not smoking for a while, but that's your choice, car or weed. After a while of passes maybe you can smoke once in a while. If not smoking is impossible, I'd just say by to the car, get a part time job and by your own car, then they can't take it away. |
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EDIT- Update: Just penned out a letter thats about a page long. I outlined how selling my car is unlikely to deter me from smoking but very likely to make me apathetic and angry because I really have nothing more to lose, so why should I stop? Whereas keeping my car means I have to be responsible and caring because I would be aware of the potential consequences. I said we should arrange a driving contract which required explicit communication and would only permit me to drive to necessary places (school, work, gym etc.). I proposed that I be required to hold a job and pass drug tests at my expense, as well as go to the gym 3-4 times a week at minimum. I did the best I could to appeal to their parental tendencies but since I broke our agreement in the first place (no driving stoned or the car is sold) I'm not too confident that it will work. I'll cross my fingers though. Last edited by kaythree : 12-04-2007 at 06:57 AM. Reason: save a double post | |
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| As a parent, I can tell you that probbly won't work at all. Let's face it. You are your parents' child and as such, they are in charge of your well being. Now, I agree that taking away your car and selling it is not the best way to go about it. That's not a step that I would take with my daughter. However, it's their rules and you have to live by those rules. Your offer of maintaining employment and voluntary drug testing is a good one. That shows commitment to following their rules. Frankly, your rather whiney response to the idea of losing your car makes you sound a bit spoiled. Teenagers don't need cars. It's a luxury, plain and simple. Luxuries are the first thing a parent will take away from a child as punishment. Good luck to you.
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| LOL Darque, not so fast. While I doubt this applies to the case in question, believe me, growing up, transportation WAS a necessity, plain and simple. I drove 21 miles, ONE WAY, EVERY SINGLE SCHOOLDAY of my HS career. While there were times my parents punished me by taking away my NON school-related driving privledges, completely forbidding me to drive would be a MUCH greater punishment for them than it would have been for me, especially considering they'd have to make the trip twice, to drop me off and pick me up....and then theres extra cirricular stuff on top of that. And no, buses weren't an option, no bus route went within 20 miles of my home. Plain and simple? NOTHING is plain and simple growing up miles away from the things most people take for granted
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