i like this girl but i dont know what to do

kiloisalb · 01-13-2008, 09:59 PM

Theres this girl i like but i never really talked to her much. I want to talk to her but i dont know what to say. I dont want to make an awkward incident, so do you guys have any pointers. I also think she likes me too from what people have said.

pkster8235 · 01-13-2008, 10:51 PM

Just ask her casually if she wants to get coffee or something.. That way it is more relaxed and you guys can go beyond the physical attraction and build something deeper without there being a lot of pressure.

Blazerrr · 01-14-2008, 11:50 AM

yea ask her to get a bite to eat with you or whatever; just the two of you. The absolute worst thing you could do is keep waiting, scared to make any moves. And dont try and figure out if she likes you through her friends. That never works as well. Just talk directly to her about your feelings.

SpiralArchitect · 01-14-2008, 10:35 PM

Yup, they got it right. Let her know your interested, you dont have to go as far as asking her for lunch, or coffee though...

Lets say your hanging out with a few friends, her included, and maybe some of her friends too. Just act nice to her, give her eye contact when she talks, smile genuinely and show your appreciation for her in however you can. If your smoking, maybe you load the bowl and offer her greens first? Compliments are nice too. Girls tend to take notice to subtle things like that, and if you get a positive response then you might want to get her phone number so you can call her later and maybe set up a 'date'.

Good luck

Let us know how it goes.

Bud&bluntman · 01-14-2008, 10:56 PM

Just say hey to her, start a conversation, and DON"T STO ASKIN HER QUESTIONS. she is a girl so she wont care what you have to say, just listen to her and shake your head in agreement.

Old Stoner · 01-15-2008, 03:57 AM

Just ask her if she wants to fuc... My dad used to do that, and yes, he got slapped a couple of times, but generally, he concluded, he could get what he wanted about 60 percent of the time. No shit.

Tally-Ho · 01-15-2008, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Old Stoner

Just ask her if she wants to fuc... My dad used to do that, and yes, he got slapped a couple of times, but generally, he concluded, he could get what he wanted about 60 percent of the time. No shit.

Yea, it might work 60% of the time. 60% of the time on "floozys". But he genuinly wants to get to know this girl by the sounds of things and your method of "picking up" is downright sleazy and dirty. Im guessing your single btw.

SpiralArchitect · 01-15-2008, 07:11 AM

Whatever you do, don't listen to Old Stoner - it will get you no where except disrespecting your female friend and making yourself look like a pompous pig in front of everyone else. I'm guessing Old Stoner's mom was easy enough to fall for that 'wonderful line', but most females, at least those with dignity and worth your time, won't....

I don't know why he said our posts were unhelpful, his certainly wasn't.

Darque Pervert · 01-15-2008, 11:10 AM

Pretend you're a monkey and throw poo at her.

Serioudly, you don't want advice from me about women. There's a reason I'm into my third marriage.

Old Stoner · 01-16-2008, 03:34 PM

Spiral, my post was in jest. You do not know me, but yet you make assinine comments about me. Grow up.

No one respects women as much as I do. But then, I wouldn't expect you'd know that, either...

Tell you what, kiddo, I'll call a truce with you. The nquestion is, are you man enough to accept it?

01-13-2008, 09:59 PM	#1
kiloisalb New Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 21 Grams: 2,455.85 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Stock Portfolio Total Value: 0.000 Gain/Loss: 0.000%	i like this girl but i dont know what to do Theres this girl i like but i never really talked to her much. I want to talk to her but i dont know what to say. I dont want to make an awkward incident, so do you guys have any pointers. I also think she likes me too from what people have said.

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pkster8235 Lazy Dancer Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,592 Grams: 22,938.12 Thanks: 766 Thanked 721 Times in 504 Posts Stock Portfolio Total Value: 0.000 Gain/Loss: 0.000%	Just ask her casually if she wants to get coffee or something.. That way it is more relaxed and you guys can go beyond the physical attraction and build something deeper without there being a lot of pressure. __________________ We treat mishaps like sinking ships and I know that I don't want to be out to drift..

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SpiralArchitect The Cosmic Chronic Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 6,861 Grams: 53,853.27 Thanks: 5,020 Thanked 3,991 Times in 2,033 Posts Stock Portfolio Total Value: 0.000 Gain/Loss: -1.000%	Yup, they got it right. Let her know your interested, you dont have to go as far as asking her for lunch, or coffee though... Lets say your hanging out with a few friends, her included, and maybe some of her friends too. Just act nice to her, give her eye contact when she talks, smile genuinely and show your appreciation for her in however you can. If your smoking, maybe you load the bowl and offer her greens first? Compliments are nice too. Girls tend to take notice to subtle things like that, and if you get a positive response then you might want to get her phone number so you can call her later and maybe set up a 'date'. Good luck Let us know how it goes. __________________ . . Posting Guidelines ~ The Art of Searching ~ Drug Testing ~ Drug War Headlines ~ Fuck Combustion ~ The Garden's Cure ~ Marijuana Chat~ ShowMeTheFacts

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SpiralArchitect The Cosmic Chronic Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 6,861 Grams: 53,853.27 Thanks: 5,020 Thanked 3,991 Times in 2,033 Posts Stock Portfolio Total Value: 0.000 Gain/Loss: -1.000%	Whatever you do, don't listen to Old Stoner - it will get you no where except disrespecting your female friend and making yourself look like a pompous pig in front of everyone else. I'm guessing Old Stoner's mom was easy enough to fall for that 'wonderful line', but most females, at least those with dignity and worth your time, won't.... I don't know why he said our posts were unhelpful, his certainly wasn't. Last edited by SpiralArchitect : 01-15-2008 at 07:17 AM.

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Darque Pervert Jive Honkey Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 5,639 Grams: 24,775.45 Thanks: 270 Thanked 774 Times in 480 Posts Stock Portfolio Total Value: 0.000 Gain/Loss: -1.000%	Pretend you're a monkey and throw poo at her. Serioudly, you don't want advice from me about women. There's a reason I'm into my third marriage. __________________ Life is always a spiral. It's the choices of the individual as to whether that spiral is aimed up or down. Marijuana.com Posting Guidelines - Read them! Love them! Live by them! Search - It's how information gets found! Don't know how to search? Learn the art of searching! Please play the Google Images Game!

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