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Monster

This is a big story so ill try to make it small.

I went over to my friends house to spend the night because it was boring at my house. So we left and watched Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas at his house and ended up going to bed at about 5am. Then I get woken up by my friends dad telling me that my parents want me home immediately. My mind started racing about all the stuff that I could have possibly done so I walked home and there they were with all of my stuff, (A Iron Lung, empty weed bags, empty swisher box, empty cigarettes box and a couple lighters). My dad started asking a whole bunch of questions like, "How long have you been smoking weed?", and "Who else did this with you". They ended up calling some of my friends parents because they took my cell phone from me and talked to their parents. Some of my friends were pissed and wanted to kick my ass even though it wasn't my fault, but were all cool now. As a punishment i had to move into a room closer to my parents room and i am grounded for a long time, they wont even tell me how long. It turned out that one of my friends hid the iron lung that i didnt even use inside one of my backpacks out side my window on a wood pile. That morning my dad was "chopping wood" and decided to mess with my stuff and found the backpack so him and my mom tore apart my room just to find more stuff.

I don't understand why my dad is so pissed because he did way worse stuff like shrooms and cocaine. And my mom did that stuff too but shes not as mad.

So also i got really pissed off about the whole situation and my life has been really f**ked up the last couple weeks. My parents blamed my F in math on weed even though I had the F before I even tried weed and im only a sophomore in a higher math. Also, I have only done it around 10 times, and whenever a friend comes over they think I am smoking something. Friends are still thinking about it and I had some suicidal thoughts. Ive never even thought about killing myself until my parents started making it a big deal a treating me like s*it. My life is never gonna be the same if they keep acting like this.

 

The Blazemaster

Hold out here buddy,
Just take a break and build up trust, then when your trusted start toking a little bit on weekends or something,then eventually you can toke more often without worry...

Pilo

Don't worry they'll get over it. Just take a break or quit, either way is gonna be fine. They'll probably give you shit for a couple more weeks. Trust me is not that bad. I remember my dad even disowned me when he found out. Two weeks later he apologized for acting that way.

SpiralArchitect

I'm sorry to hear about that man, but truth be told you probably don't need to be smoking right now.

Your young, you have your whole life ahead of you - work on your studies right now, and regaining your parents trust. You need to show them that you are responsible and mature enough to enjoy a substance like marijuana, then you can cross that bridge.

I would just talk to your parents about how you feel if your really stressing, no teenager should have to feel suicidal thoughts and feel trapped in a hole. They are your parents, they love you no matter what, and they want as much communication as possible - trust me.

If your grounded for a long time and have access to a PC feel free to stop by the MJ.com chat or even add me to MSN/AIM. Until now, I wish you the best of luck with everything...

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ahender

Monster, weed isnt worth it if it messes up your life this much and makes you have suicidal thoughts. if you still want to smoke wait a while till after your parents calm down. It's soo much cooler when you can get high without worrying about the shit thats happening to you right now

 

Bud&bluntman

a month from now it wont even matter, so dont worry about it

Herbalista

It sucks but since you live at home you should respect your parents wishes. Once you move out, smoke all you want - be mature about it, and do like I do - smoke in the privacy of your own home, or with friends you can trust. Don't get caught if you are going to get in trouble.

Marijuana is very misunderstood and it's sad, but that's the way life goes.

My mom knows I smoke, I still live at home. She actually thinks I'm dumber for having smoked cigarettes. Haha. I don't smoke when my parents are around though.

...like I said, if it's their house, you should obey their wishes.

Philosophy

Damn you sotry was similar to mines. They only thing you you can do is is wait, b/c when you do the crime you pay the time...lol....but shit i'll message you wit some few ideas b/c i just got thru that stage(smokin weed and gettin caught 4 the first time), oh my mom caught me like a few days ago but all she smelt was cologne b/c i sparyed it all over and had my window open and had a boob tube, now she wont let me locked my door when friends come over

Monster

Thanks for all the help. For now I am quitting and tomorrow is the last day of semester in school so i had a bunch of finals and I might have raised my F to a D today in math and I did pretty good in all of my other classes. My mom told me that when I move out I can do whatever I want so I am thinking of holding out until then. Ive been sober since New Years

Instead of smoking pot though ive been smoking cigarettes and chewing but I still feel that its way worse.

krad

My suggestion would be to take a break, rebuild trust, and most importantly don't stress out. It will work out by itself and you won't even think about after awhile.

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