Silverbackman

So my new girlfriend says that she has never smoked weed but she says that she is down to try it. All my girlfriends in the past were big time stoners like myself so I never had to worry about this before. But now I'm kinda worried. One of my favorite activities with the chicks I've been with is getting high and having a good ass time . So I'm worried that she might not like it as much as I do which would kinda be a big deal. I'll still love her and shit but it would be a big shame if she didn't like the high of ganja.

So my question is......what are the chances that she won't like pot? Now I have been around some people who had tried pot for the first time......and if I remember correctly many liked it. Some didn't. Unlike cocaine, benzos, or speed which everyone likes no matter what the first time they tried it....or that's what it seems. I guess only certain people like pot. Some people have negative reactions to it and become way too paranoid to enjoy it.

My gal has been through a lot of fucked up shit in the past and may even have some minor form of ptsd......is she at greater chance of having a negative reaction and not liking pot? Does anyone know the percentage rate of people who accept and grow to love pot?

Thanks in advance to those who reply.

Trocisp

Make sure its a totally stress free environment. That's all you can do.

Also, do not attempt to influence her, if she take it and then goes "no, no no, nevermind, I want to wait a little longer," just say "Ok." and leave it.

Pompo

Moving to People and Places

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Bud&bluntman

if she dosnt like it, theirs nothing you can do. When I first started it freaked me out too much, so i kept trying it over and over until I got used to it and was fine after a smoke. She will probably like it, good luck.

krad

I think since she's open minded about trying it she'll have a good time with it, as long as she's not nervous or anything before she starts.

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girl girl

Wow. I feel like you are talking to me.
Do I know you?
Haha.

My ex-boyfriend introduced me to weed and at first I didn't like it. I had this imagined stereotype for those who smoked weed and I didn't really like it.
I felt so stupid sitting in that chair, melting away and eating Twix bars = lazy as fuck.

Then, when fall semester started I decided that I would try smoking again, stick my toes back in that water. First I would drink and then I would smoke. The weed intensified the experience, also combining with a couple of anti-depressants that I take all of the time (as in prescription).
This craziness didn't insue for very long but I eventually decided I didn't like getting that fucked up so I took the alcohol component out.

So - paragraph summary: She might not like it at first but grow to like it. Just like drinking vodka, haha.

Now - for the minor PTSD.
My roommate has that (we kind of have a really negitive living situation).
Weed, which can make you feel paranoid and an anxiety order do not really mix.
Try and start her off in a really situation that is very calm. No crazy college parties.
I still can't even go to those, I get too anxious.

Okay, thats all I can think of for now.
If you have any more questions let me know...I can try and help out.

-Katie

newcarcaviar

My best advice would be do what Trocisp said and don't pressure her into doing it. Let her try it on her own accord. And when she does try it, go slow. Take it a hit at a time until she's comfortable. Getting her completely blasted the first time might dissuade her from trying it again if she has a bad experience with it.

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t-1000

just make it as stress free as possible and make sure she knows about the safety of weed

i absolutely hate it when a noob is smoking and says "naw im good" and then people say "nnooo man its your first time you gotta keep smoking"

dumbasses if he keeps smoking hes either gonna vomit or have a panic attack

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