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29yeartoker

J and I went to mom's this past Saturday. She was doing okay. I was able to wash her hair for her and I cut it. I was very surprised that she was able to sit up long enough for me to do all of that. She didn't go into an attack. That was a good thing. We finally told her that we are going to clear the land for her. She started crying. She couldn't believe that J had set the entire thing up for her. She agreed to go into a care center for her mobile home to be moved. She wants to go see it once the land is cleared. She is going to talk to the nurses to see if they will bring her a wheelchair and a breathing machine that plugs into a cigarette lighter for that day. She actually has something to look forward to. J is feeling indifferent on the idea. He feels like he is helping her die. I thought of the same thing but at least I know if it does happen shortly after, she will die happy. All in all we had a good visit with her.

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There are fairies everywhere: under bushes, in the air, playing games just like you play, singing through their busy day.
So, listen, touch, and look around - in the air and on the ground.
And if you watch all nature's things, you might just see a fairy's wing ~ Author Unknown

 

sterbo

29,
You all are a blessing. Giving back so much love to your Mom has to be everything she could possibly wish for.
If she lives on she'll be all the stronger,
if she moves on, it'll be on your angel wings...

so much love...

SpiralArchitect

Sterbo, you are so great with words... it's truly moving at times,

that said

Wow, that is great. It always brightens my day when a wish can be fulfilled, any wish no matter what size. I hope your mother is well enough to see the land being restored to its beauty and have enough time to enjoy living at her new place. I know I really have no matter in the say, but I think a happy passing is always the best. We all hope our last days are spent with surrounded by smiles and lots of love,

take care 29yeartoker.

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I embrace my desire to
feel the rhythm,
to feel connected enough to step aside and weep like a widow
to feel inspired, to fathom the power, to witness the beauty, to bathe in the fountain,
to swing on the spiral of our divinity and still be a human.

newcarcaviar

That's really good to hear, 29!

As for helping her die, my personal opinion is that everyone will die eventually so you might as well make them happy before they do. Something is better than nothing. Though, I do hope your mom will enjoy many more years.

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Shine on, Syd. 1946-2006

29yeartoker

Well we are all ready to go this weekend. Everything has fell into place. The only thing that is left is the dumpster and that is just a phone call away. I have contacted a utility guy that will go out and repipe the water and sewer lines so they will be ready to hook up to her mobile home. I am just waiting for some moving companies to call me back which I guess I will have to call them again. She only wants one of two to move her and neither one has called me back. But I am not that worried yet I will continue to call them to get that part of it set up. Otherwise she will have to settle for a different company.

I'll let you all know how it goes.

 

29yeartoker

We went out and cleared her land this past Saturday. It went very well. Most of it got cleared and then the bobcat ran over a peice of metal and it sliced the tire. He said he will come back with it in a couple weeks to finish it. I felt so bad....I offered to replace the tire but he wouldn't let me. These people were great. They didn't charge us and we had 9 guys besides J that went out there. It is looking really good. The guys went in to meet my mother 3 at a time and they were so nice and respectful. My mother was so happy and it felt good to see a smile on her face.

We will go back and finish it in a couple of weeks and in the meantime we are working on getting her water/sewer pipes ran. We have a friend that is getting us an electric pole with the box and then we will get her mobile home moved. This is a huge start and now we can see some light at the end of the tunnel. It is a great feeling.

king cola

Just wanted to say sorry to hear about your mom but it's good to hear about people going out of their way to help her. I'l be sure to say a pray for her, hope everything goes good

newcarcaviar

Glad to hear everything's going well! Except for the tire, that is. Good luck from here.

Merry-juana

Whatever you never told your mother about stupid things you did, do it now.

PS On her death bed, give her some of the best weed you can possably find, it will ease the pain, esp emotional trauma.

drOnly

my grandfather just passed away saturday. im going to the veiwing today. so i know how you feel. death is a hard thing to deal with but somtimes its the ultimate healing.