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troublemaker_42

No way....I didn't get married becasue I wanted to be with other people. I got married because I found the ONE person I want to be with.

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rich420

i do it all the time

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Vicki

This is how I feel. I think the reason other people cheat is because they are unhappy in their relationship. If that is the case, they should just move on. Unless, of course, the couple is into that kind of thing.

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The Blazemaster

Well, I dont think I would cheat on any girl. Im more mature than that. If theres something Im not getting, Id tell her, intead of sneaking around and other crap like that...

I dont need to make myself look bad in her eyes, and maybe a future girl's eyes, by cheating...

blondie0420

Great answer. I agree. If you're not getting enough sex/attention/affection from whoever you're dating, you should TELL them. Cheating on someone is only going to put more distance between you. Getting what you need from someone else is only a temporary fix to your problem anyway, you'll still want what you don't have and aren't getting from your relationship, and once again you'll feel the need to go out and find it elsewhere.

I can't imagine being the type of person who cheats because I'm not "satisfied" without feeling the slightest bit bad about it. I mean, damn. That's just cold.

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Bhikku

I would never cheat because I think it's wrong and I don't tolerate it in a mate either. I believe in fidelity and trust in relationships..

Break up or be loyal.

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oddblonde7

Either way you go on this, you have to do it for the right reasons. What I mean is if you just want booty, they should know that its no strings attached and if you were to start feeling anything dont play around. but if you really do love someone you shouldnt lead them on. If you have feelings your feelings should only belong to one person. Because I know what its like being on both ends and as I've grown to adulthood i've realized that lust and love should just be seperate. its not worth anyones time to just fuck someone over.

Snipe¤Star

i havent cheated on a girl since i was like 16...

i only cheated on the girls that i caught/knew were cheating on me, then broke up with them. i never cheated on a girl that didnt deserve it, and i dont cheat anymore anyway, if i get cheated on then i just toss the bitch aside and start anew

imFADED

I think it is more immature to cheat on someone to get 'revenge' then to simply cheat on them out of the blue. If you find that they cheated on you, dump them, then find someone else to sleep with. That way you are not known as a cheater and you are getting the prize at the end of the race.

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iloveunot

ummm

why is that confusing to you? are you curious as to why it may be different whether or not this person would cheat based on if their significant other was a boy or a girl.... maybe you could ask if you were confused or curious "why have you cheated on boys you date but not girls?"

or do you just have a problem with bisexuality/homosexuality? because that post was unhelpful, i dont see why two people thanked it.... it didnt contribute anything except possibly making someone feel bad for their sexual preferences
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on topic I have been cheated on and also cheated but i feel that no matter what honesty is the best policy, no one is perfect and people make mistakes. if it happens in a relationship and its something that can be worked through, then great.... but its something BOTH people need to come to terms with. for example you cant say youll stay with your bf/gf after s/he cheats on you but then not be willing or able to truly forgive them and trust them, of course theres hurt and trust wouldnt be back up at 100% the next day, but again, even tho only one person did it, its on both sides to fix it if youre determined to stay together... but probably most people who are really willing to work through something like that because they love each other, are the ones who are least likely to find themselves in that situation

if we talk about humans as animals... sex is something physical that can be done without any sort of emotional attachment or bonds or anything... its something (most of) our bodies physically crave and want (because our main goal in life biologically speaking is to reproduce), so it IS a natural thing to wanna bang as much as you can... woman tend to get more attached to guys and seek out monogamy (in a sense from a physical need) because thats how theyre biologically wired, they want their mate to stick around and be able to care for her and the offspring (especially at her weakest, during pregnancy and directly after childbirth), women are wired to think more long term, their "goal" is to raise the offspring to a point where it can function on its own. however, the main goal of the guy is to spread his seed and pass on his genes as much as he can, but theres no really biological NEED to be invested any further than that. now enter in human emotion and relationships, social structure, religion, morals, ethics, whatever else....
emotions and consciousness and whatever else are why we refrain from just acting on all of the physical instincts nature stuck us with... and part of what makes us different from animals...

honestly, in my opinion, like i said before sex is sex and it can be something that means nothing other than getting off. i know because ive had meaningless sex. sex is fun.
if i had a bf or gf (that i was serious with and emotionally invested in) cheat on me, some one night stand w a hard body that would never be seen again, especially if it was under the influence of substances, it wouldnt upset me hardly at all compared to if i found out my bf or gf had been having a romantic or emotional relationship with someone else... or some sort of on going thing behind my back, or being lied to... it wouldnt even necessarily have to be sexual at all, but id feel really betrayed and cheated... again, definitely way more so than if my significant other just got some hot action and was honest with me about it... (but thats not meaning you get a free pass to fuck whoever you want either, ya know)

Everyone is different and it comes down to treating others how you want to be treated and thinking in situations in reverse, putting yourself in someone elses shoes, and being honest with YOURSELF and whoever youre with about who you are, who you arent, and what you want.... finding someone that has similar views and wants to be treated and respected in similar ways (for example if someone really cant or doesnt want to be monogamous, yet still feel the need or want to be in a relationship, why not find someone else who shares your views and have an open relationship, maybe conventional relationships arent for everyone)
For me, I know ive made and will make mistakes, in life and in relationships, and ill recognize that in other people too