DaDornta

Yea...

I hate the band -- but the lyrics to this song hit me so hard. It is exactly how i feel these days.

I doubt a woman is out there for me.

I just "be myself" -- and it never seems to work.

Women seem to want to be treated like shit, but claim they want chivilary...

All my female friends who would make excellent wives/mothers are with assholes/deadbeats and complain to me.

I fucking hate it. I'm *this* close to moving to India or the SouthWest (Hopi Reservation) and just shunning all females forever.

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SpiralArchitect

Maybe you should try homosexuality?

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newcarcaviar

I know what you mean. I find so many girls are shallow as hell. Even if they're really good looking a shallow personality will turn me right off and I have no further interest in them. I don't know if it's an age/maturity thing (i'm going on 23), but what it means is that I really don't get many women.

I don't want to generalize because there are good women out there (keep that in mind), but a lot of them are insane and have no clue what they want. If that's the case, forget them, you don't need them. They can go be with the guys that treat them like dirt and they will be sorry.

Don't give up on women entirely though. It may take some time but sooner or later you will find the girl you've been looking for. And she's probably looking for you.

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Jake

For the longest time, I thought that to "be myself" meant to "act like I feel."

But if your feeling wants you to NOT express that feeling more than you WANT to, then that is a feeling in itself, and should be respected.

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29yeartoker

Don't give up DaDornta. There is someone for you. As Newcarcaviar said she is looking for you as well. I have heard many success stories about those dating websites. You may want to try some of those.

I do know what you mean though. I am 42 and still haven't found my Prince Charming. I figure it will happen when it happens. Maybe you are trying too hard . Remember love will come to you when you least expect it.

Don't give up though, hang in there!

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king cola

Just my opinion but if I read it right the girls you like are dating someone. When you like a chick that's in a relationship even if she might be with a douche, it's a waste of time trying to get with her. Again just my opinion but some girls don't want to be single, they might feel more secure with someone even if the guy is a asshole the girl is always trying to change them. It works both ways, some guys try to get a girl to change and often it's the girl trying to get the guy to change for them. In the end we are all people and no one is going to change for someone if they don't want to. Another problem might be that your friends with some of these girls. Once you become friends with them they might not want to risk ruining a friendship with you. Sometimes it sucks once a girl becomes your friend because if you like her it might make it a little more complicated but if shes dating someone it's not worth wasting your time.

You could always go out and find some random attractive girl and depending on where you are you could strike up a conversation with her. The approach is everything. Definatly don't walk up to a girl and say your hot you wanna go out with me! Strike up a conversation and see where it goes. If she is someone you bump into often then talk to her everytime you see her and build up off that. Eventually you could ask for her number or give her yours and ask if she wants to hangout sometime. If she gives you her number and tells you to call her sometime don't call her right away or the next day. Give her a couple days, maybe a week before you call her. You don't want to come off as being desperate. If she doesn't answer leave a short voice message just saying somethin simple like hey what's up it's so and so just callling to see what your doing, hit me back soon and end it. If she doesn't call back right away don't call her again. If shes interested she will call you back when she gets around to it. Girls don't like it when a guy keeps calling them.

There are girls that will fuck with your head. They say they don't understand us but I think it's more of the other way around, we don't understand them. Who knows what the hell they want lol. I liked girls in the past that were in relationships, it really is a waste of time.

All i'm saying is you might have a easier time meeting and dating a girl that is outside of being a good friend, especially if shes single.

If your seriously thinking of going to India, dude go to Sweden if your going to take a trip. According to Manswers 60% of the population is girls and they like American guys, think it was a travel agent they interviewed that gave that advice.

Vicki

I don't think so. If someone tries to treat me like shit, I'll kick their ass. I certainly wont take that shit.

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29yeartoker

I agree with you Vicki! I wouldn't put up with that shit either. That would be his last mistake

king cola

On the calling a girl thing, don't be this guy, she will think your nuts lol.

smash

wtf ya dont be that guy. one day youll find what your looking for, dont sweat it